When Do I Call Myself A Writer?

Joe Tooley
3 min readFeb 23, 2021
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“I’m a writer.”

“Oh yeah? What have you written?”

“A few short stories, I also post online. But my main goal is to finish my novel.”

“Oh, nice. Yeah, that would be cool. Always good to have hobbies.”

When Are You A Writer?

I’ve enjoyed writing for a long time now. I think it goes all the way back to high school when I would come up with story ideas for me and my friends to turn into half-assed short films. Yes, they were terrible.

Since then, the writing has grown and also gotten more specific. I write about almost anything here on Medium, I started a beer blog, and, my personal favorite, I write fiction--which ranges from novels to podcasts and short stories.

Through all the years of writing, I’ve made little to no money. I’ve never published a novel, and I’ve never received any “acclaim”. So when I tell people something like “I’m writing a novel” they probably don’t understand. They wouldn’t classify me as a writer because it's not my profession.

Like, yeah I play tennis on the weekend but I’m not a tennis player. Right?

Maybe it's just me, but I feel like there's this taboo with writing. What makes a writer a writer?

Validation

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Joe Tooley

Industrial/Organizational Psychologist. Soccer Enthusiast. Reader. Writer. https://grainbillreview.com/